Rules# 7b: Rules
for Illness: Preventing Illness Returning
For Those Who Have "Survived" Illness
"The future you see is the future you get."
(Robert G. Allen)
When you recover from a serious illness, always,
in the back of your mind, you fear that it may return
suddenly-unexpectedly.
You wonder what you can do to keep your illness
in remission. The good news is that you CAN take steps to keep illness
from coming back as well as to promote
vibrant health.
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Focus on Love-Joy:
Many who have been jailed end up returning
to prison because they fear they will go back. Same thing with those
who have been ill: their focus on the return of their disease ends up
recreating it. Laughter and a constant focus on being loving and doing
joyful things really are the BEST medicine. So do not give your past
illness even one moment of your current or future attention.
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Forgive Everyone Everything:
Forgive God, your
Higher Self,
your guides, and any other inner beings for having put you through the
illness and its aftermath. Forgive yourself for whatever you believe
you have "done wrong" to cause the illness. Forgive any healthcare
professionals who you believe did not give you the proper care you
deserved. Forgive others around you who were not as supportive or
compassionate as you would have liked while you were ill.
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After Care:
Your
body-mind-emotions
require care and attention to function properly.
After a serious illness, they require EXTRA care to get them to vibrant
health. Many times those who contracted an illness did so because they
did not take good care of their
body-mind-emotions
in the first place. Your illness is challenging
you to take better care of yourself, to learn more
click here.
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Wake Up Call:
Your illness is challenging you to change your
life. Either you need to do things differently or do different things.
Here is how by
chakra:
"Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the
consequences of his choices." (Alfred A. Montapert)
If you seek to heal your Crown Chakra, then
making good choices is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the head - brain, eyes,
ears, nose, mouth, inner guidance, etc - is effected by blocks near
the Crown Chakra.
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About Choice:
Choices are how we learn what is and is not
like love. As we choose, we learn. We repeat those choices that led
to success and we avoid those choices that have led to failure.
Karma
shows us through experience what we should
and should not do. Choices are the ultimate expression of our
free will.
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Choice =
Discernment:
All roads lead back to God... but all roads are
not the same nor do individuals travel them in the same way. All are
seekers after truth and each will come to truth in the way that is best
for them. Discernment is the art of having learned what love is and
what it is not. Discernment is only gained through choices: successes
and failures, tragedies and triumphs, mistakes and miracles.
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Choice =
Detachment:
Detachment is the art of letting the will of
God ("Thy Will") become your own ("my will"). Since the goal of
reincarnation is to help us to become a CoWorker with God, that implies
acceptance of His Will. Making the choice to accepting God's Will is
only possible when one detaches from their own finite expectations to
participate in the infinite manifestation of the Divine Plan.
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Choice =
Discipline:
Success in any area of life is linked to our
discipline in pursuing it. Try running a winning army, business, or
school without the discipline of training, policies, and procedures.
Try developing spiritual discernment without it and see how soon the
"Dark Night of Soul" will stop you. Whatever you what to achieve in
life, discipline is bound to be the foundation of that achievement.
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Cultivating Choice Power:
With detachment and discipline, you then learn
discernment and the power of your choices. Making better choices is to
learn from successes and failures and do better the next time. If you
can improve each time, step by step your choices become better and your
lives improve. When you think about it, all you really have in any life
is your power to choose and all you really get are the consequences of
those choices over your cycles of
reincarnation.
"Clarity [is] to be achieved... by someone wanting
to serve people rather than to impress them." (F. Lucas)
If you seek to heal your Brow Chakra, then gaining
greater clarity is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the head - brain, eyes,
ears, nose, mouth, thinking, etc - is effected by blocks near the Brow
(Third Eye) Chakra.
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About Clarity:
Clarity means seeing things (people, events,
and situations) as they are rather than as you would like them to be
or as others would have you do. For being clear is the only way you
can ever create "good" karma for yourself and others. Much "bad"
karma is the result of intentional unclarity (lies, etc).
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Clarity = Accuracy:
Clarity means to always see and report what you
know in a factually accurate and objective manner to the best of your
knowledge. This means separating fact from opinion (for example, a fact
would be "My eyes are blue" while an opinion would be "and my blue
eyes let in too much sunlight"). This means sticking to facts and
labeling opinions as such. You are being clear and accurate when you
are honest and truthful to the best of your ability.
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Clarity = Objectivity:
Clarity means to always see and report what you
know with objectivity. This means that others present at an event would
describe it with the same set of facts and circumstances in a similar
manner. The objective point of view is a "fair and balanced" one. It
is the one that God knows to be true. You are being clear and objective
when you strive to rise above your point of view and act with the highest
standard of integrity as if God was watching your every move.
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Clarity = Completeness:
Clarity means to always see and report what you
know in a complete manner telling "the whole truth and nothing but the
truth so help you God." This means including all the relevant details
and highlighting the key points. This means not excluding anything
important and including all the essential facts. You are being clear
and complete when you have communicated everything to another that you
would have wanted to know if you were in their place.
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Cultivating Clarity:
Clarity takes effort. Telling the truth down
to the smallest detail creates clarity. Acting as if your life is an
open book and be willing to have others read from it creates clarity.
Remember that those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. If you
always speak and act as if you knew an investigative reporter would be
checking every fact and alerting the media as to the slightest error,
you will know that you have achieved clarity at the level of great
karma.
"I am an ambassador in chains... may I speak
boldly, as I ought to speak." (Ephesians 6:20)
If you seek to heal your Throat Chakra, then
candor is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the throat or chest -
vocal chords, lungs, breathing, speaking, etc - is effected by blocks
near the Throat Chakra.
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About Candor:
Candor consists of these qualities: fairness,
frankness, and firmness. Fairness means being honest with thoughts,
beliefs, speaking, and actions in alignment. Frankness means speaking
up for oneself and one's needs and desires while firmness means standing
up for oneself and one's beliefs and boundaries.
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Candor = Truth:
Speaking with fairness, frankness, and firmness
means speaking one's truth. So much "bad" karma is the result of
individuals either not speaking their truth (by telling lies or spinning
the facts) or falling silent when they know they should speak up. Those
who want to improve their karma should start by telling the truth and
nothing but the truth. As Walter Scott said,
"Oh what a tangled web we weave when first
we practice to deceive."
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Candor = Kindness:
Speaking with fairness, frankness, and firmness
only works when such speech is kind. Even the most unpleasant facts can
always be communicated effectively if they are conveyed with as much
kindness as possible. Long after what you have said is forgotten, how
you said it is still remembered. Kindness is not difficult: all is takes
is thoughtfulness, consideration, and patience. When you speak with
kindness, you create great karma for yourself.
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Candor = Necessary:
Speaking with fairness, frankness, and firmness
means confining communication to what is necessary. Necessary communication
makes a positive difference in moving things forward (instead negatively
rehashing old arguments). Necessary communication is always helpful, seeks
a positive result, and ends up empowering everyone involved. Necessary
communication helps to create the health, wealth, and happiness of all
parties in the conversation.
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Cultivating Candor:
Candor takes practice. Knowing what to say
as well as when and where it best to say speak is a fine art. The more
sensitive what you have to communicate is, the fewer the people there
should be to hear it. Be careful of how you communicate: emails and
text messages are good for many things but they should never be used
when face to face interchanges are required to deliver tough decisions.
Candor requires judgment and a desire for meaningful communication.
"If you find it in your heart to care for somebody
else, you will have succeeded." (Maya Angelou)
If you seek to heal your Heart Chakra, then caring
is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the heart - heart,
circulatory, loving, etc - is effected by blocks near the Heart
Chakra.
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About Caring:
As Rainer Maria Rilke said,
"For one human being to love another… that is
perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last
test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation."
The core essence of love is caring: caring about
yourself, about others, about life, and about all living things by
demonstrating compassion, tolerance, and forgiveness.
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Caring = Compassion:
Compassion, the highest form of love and
kindness, is what karma and reincarnation mean to teach us. "The desire
to help another out of love and love alone" is the best description of
what it means to have and show compassion. Instead of saying "I love
you" to another, ask instead "How can I help you? How can I make things
better?" "How can I understand your situation?" True caring is
expressed through helping to make the lives of others happier and
better.
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Caring = Tolerance:
Tolerance is the first step towards cultivating
compassion and then unconditional love. What you cannot tolerate, what
you resist or hate, persists until the wheels of karma and reincarnation
grind it out of you. Instead of saying "I hate you", ask instead "How
can I understand you better?" True caring starts with your desire to
know what it is like to walk in another's shoes.
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Caring = Forgiveness:
Forgiveness
does not mean forgetting (as if it never happened)
or condoning (as if it was not the mistake you know it to be). Instead,
forgiveness means letting go of the guilt, shame, sorrow, anger, and
other negative emotions keeping you stuck in unforgiveness. Instead of
saying "I cannot forgive you", ask instead "How can we move past this
problem?" True caring can only come with the willingness to forgive and
the related actions creating forgiveness.
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Cultivating Caring:
Caring is cultivated by expressing love whenever
possible. Smile or say a kind word. Thank others who help you. Be
generous with those who serve you. Be polite to all around you. If
you see a situation where you can help, offer help and then keep your
promise. Sharing knowledge and expertise can be more helpful than
sharing
money.
When you reach out to help others, know that you
are also helping yourself. Caring creates the best possible karma.
"Surmounting difficulty is the crucible that forms character."
(Tony Robbins)
If you seek to heal your Stomach Chakra, then good character is a
quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the stomach - liver, kidney,
digestive, etc - is effected by blocks near the Stomach (Solar Plexus)
Chakra.
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About Character:
As Abraham Lincoln said,
"Character is like a tree and reputation like a
shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing."
When it comes to karma, character is the real
thing: it is the only thing that we bring with us into this life and
the only thing that we will take with us when we leave it. It is
the only thing that follows us through our cycles of reincarnation.
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Character = Standards:
Character consists of having standards and
defending them. Standards are what the person will and will not
say or do. Standards are usually created by the morals, ethics, and
manners which they choose to adopt. The more one remains true to their
own code of conduct, the more clearly are their standards known to
others and the easier it is to know and understand them.
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Character = Boundaries:
Character is defined by the boundaries a person
chooses. Boundaries are how we teach others to treat us. Boundaries
are when we insist that others treat our bodies with care (not allowing
others to physically hurt us), our minds with care (not trying to change
our beliefs and behaviors), and our emotions with care (not getting us to
deny our feelings and reactions). The firmer and clearer our boundaries
are, the stronger our character will become.
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Character = Alignment:
Character can most readily be seen in the
alignment and consistency between what a person thinks, believes, says,
and does. Those with good character possess life affirming beliefs,
empowering thoughts, positive speech, and helpful actions. When beliefs,
thoughts, speech, and action are consistent and congruent, the individual
is in alignment. When that character commits itself to the highest good
of all concerned, that creates the best karma.
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Creating Character:
Character can be created and built in many
ways. When you says "Yes" when you choose to do something and then
you follow through, you build character. When you say "No" when
you cannot or do not wish to do something and you do not feel guilty
about it, you build character!
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Cultivating Character:
When you stand up for yourself and do not allow
others to treat you with disrespect or abuse, you build character. When
you are always as good as your word: if you say that a thing will be
done and others can bank on the fact that it is as good as done, you
build character!
"An essential aspect of creativity is not being
afraid to fail." (Edwin Land)
If you seek to heal your Sacral Chakra, then
creativity is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the spine - muscles, joints,
bones, nerves, excretory, etc - is effected by blocks near the Sacral
Chakra.
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About Creativity:
Creativity is the divine aspect of the human
being. Karma and reincarnation send us lessons-tests that that we, as
spiritual beings having a human experience, are meant to master using
our divine creativity. There are no such things as failures, there are
only ways that did not work that will lead us to ways that do work if we
allow these old problems to lead us to new opportunities.
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Creativity = Rediscover:
As Auguste Rodin said,
"I invent nothing. I just rediscover."
An essential part of creativity is seeing
something new in something old, something that was there all the time
and was only awaiting rediscovery. There are always new things to be
discovered because there are always new eyes looking at them.
Ironically, when something new comes along, it always seems so simple
and others wonder why they (or others) never saw it before then.
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Creativity = Reflect:
As Steven Spielberg said,
"I dream for a living."
Rediscovery by itself is not enough. Ideas are
great but only when the idea is made real does it succeed. For an idea
to become reality, it takes much thought and reflection. It takes many
step by step actions to bring the idea from the realm of thought into
manifestation in the physical world. It takes divine creativity to
overcome the obstacles along the way… all this is the result of
reflection.
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Creativity = Refine:
As Napoleon Bonaparte said,
"Imagination rules the world."
Rediscovery and reflection alone are not enough.
Ideas and plans require constant refinement. Creating in the physical
world always involves trial and error. Ideas must be adjusted when they
encounter reality while plans must be altered when limitations in
resources are found. Refinement turns dreams into reality.
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Cultivating Creativity:
Creativity comes from trusting. The more you
turn your ideas into reality, the more you gain confidence in your
powers to create. You are in the business of creating. Look around
you: all you have and all you are, you have created for yourself now.
Whatever you need, want, or desire is challenging you to create it.
This is one of the most powerful ways karma operates in the universe.
"Courage is the first among human qualities
because it guarantees the others." (Aristotle)
If you seek to heal your Root Chakra, then
courage is a quality you need to cultivate.
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Effected Areas:
Anything to do with the reproductive area -
sexual organs, sex, money, power, etc - is effected by blocks near
the Root Chakra.
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About Courage:
Courage is the fuel that gives us strength to
make our journey through life. If you feel you are lacking in courage,
know that coming to Earth to have a spiritual experience was in and of
itself a great act of bravery. Courage is the golden thread that draws
us ever higher into the inner realms of God.
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Courage & Money:
Manifesting material abundance
(money)
to meet all one's needs, wants, and desires
is a great challenge. Having little money requires one to be
efficient and resourceful. Having much money requires one to be
organized and prudent. The ebb and flow of money teaches us to be
careful and prepare for the future. It takes courage to trust that
abundance
will manifest whenever needed.
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Courage & Sex:
Attracting and keeping the right romantic
partner can power one's life… just as the wrong one can drain it of
energy. When we open ourselves to having sex provides the greatest
lessons in openness, vulnerability, and trust. Sex, when coupled with
genuine love, opens the Root Chakra up powerfully. It takes courage
to share one's life with another and to trust that love will last.
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Courage & Power:
Using our power as a divine creator to manifest
our inner desires out into the outer physical world is a courageous act.
These courageous acts include: following one's heart to do the work one
feels called to do, pursuing a cause that stirs the soul, passing on the
torch of knowledge to others, spreading hope and kindness throughout the
world, and leaving the world a better place.
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Creating Courage:
Courage comes from many sources. Placing your
life and welfare in God's hands knowing you are protected is courageous.
Trusting in your ability to meet and master whatever challenge life
sends you creates courage.
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Cultivating Courage:
Building a track record of success gives you
the courage to take more risks. The more you learn to trust in your
own resourcefulness in manifesting your desires, the greater your
confidence and courage becomes.
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rules are for real, see how they relate to the
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Credits: adapted
from my own lessons in the "School of Hard Knocks", inspired
by a very wise individual, and from channeled information.