Rules of the House #25d:
Past Life Carry Over Habits - Emotional
"Habits... form us. Conquer your
bad habits or they will conquer you." (Rob Gilbert)
When people enter their present life, they have
forgotten that they have chosen the difficulties they are facing now
to resolve unfinished business from past lives.
Often that
business is breaking habits acquired in the past that are no
longer serve them like:
If you think one thing, believe another, speak
or act contrary to those, you have "Divided Consciousness".
If in past lives, you learned to be inconsistent
in thought, word, and deed, your consciousness is divided:
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Divided Consciousness Defined:
Divided consciousness is where what someone
thinks is different from what they are saying or doing. Most people
are not 100% consistent 100% of the time in thoughts, speaking, and
actions. Yet, those people who are 100% inconsistent 100% of the
time in thoughts, speaking, and actions have divided consciousness
(the direct cause of the worst karma).
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Suicide Bombers:
More often than not, the family and friends of
suicide bombers are surprised when they learn about their bombing...
after the fact. Until the last moment, the suicide bomber will speak
and act like they have a future. Yet, if you could read their minds,
you would know they had long ago decided to die for their cause.
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Con Artists:
Con artists deliberately cultivate a state of
divided consciousness. This is what makes it so easy for them to
assume one false identity after another. When an individual can
compartmentalize their mind into different personalities who can
speak and act with conviction, they are capable of any crime. In
fact, con artists create the most terrible karma for themselves in
future lives... because as they cheated others in the past, so will
they be cheated in the future.
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Religious Seducers:
These are usually men who believe that women -
who are not virgins or who are willing to have sex before marriage -
deserve whatever they get. More often than not, their religion teaches
them that non-virgins are nothing more than whores who can be used and
discarded without consequence. Although these men can speak and act
lovingly to the "whore-like" women, they will never marry them and will
eventually leave them to marry a virgin.
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Marital Cheaters:
When a marital partner cheats once, there are
only two outcomes. Either the cheater is scared straight by their
infidelity and decides never to do it again -or- this becomes the
first in a long string of extra-marital affairs. To keep the affair
going, the cheater has to speak and act in ways that will conceal the
true nature of their thoughts and activities from their unsuspecting
spouse.
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The Divided Consciousness Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life habit (divided). Do you have any of these?
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Thoughts vs Beliefs:
Those who think one thing but truly believe
another suffer from Divided Consciousness. This happens all the time
in religious contexts. Many who call themselves a good adherent of
their religion and outwardly conform to its teachings - but who have
private doubts and contrary beliefs - suffer from being divided.
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Thoughts vs Speech:
Those who think one thing but are always
speaking to the contrary suffer from Divided Consciousness. This
happens all the time in family contexts. Many who dislike a certain
family member can feel pressure to say nice things about these
individuals that they do not (and probably never will) feel.
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Speech vs Actions:
Those who speak about one thing but act in
another way suffer from Divided Consciousness. This happens all the
time in lifestyle contexts. Many who use recreational drugs swear
to family, friends, and authorities they would not do what they are
doing.
If you just cannot take action toward your goals
no matter how hard you try, you are procrastinating.
If you have difficulty taking action in this
life, you have most likely died from issues with action/inaction in
past lives:
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Procrastination Defined:
If you were harmed for taking action in a past
life or if you died from extreme over-work, the resulting trauma can
be seared into your cellular memory causing you to be reluctant to
take actions - no matter how beneficial - in your life now and/or
to be unable to break habits of inaction.
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Defense Mechanism:
From a biological standpoint, laziness is
actually a defense mechanism that is "hard wired" into the human
consciousness. For most of human history, the struggle to survive
ensured that people were constantly active-busy-working.
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Hard-Wired Laziness:
The desire for laziness arose to make sure
that people would give their overworked body a break when time permitted.
The concept of most people having leisure time is a new one, historically
speaking. In modern society, laziness presents a problem because more
sustained and persistent effort is required for those people who want to
improve their destiny nowadays.
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Blocked Action:
Often mistaken for laziness, procrastination is
action that is blocked: investing energy in things that cannot work
and-or not investing energy in things that can work.
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The Procrastination Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life habit (procrastination). Do you have any of these?
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Non-Productive Hard Work:
Some of the biggest procrastinators are also
some of the most hard working. For they spend their time, money, and
energy on things others can plainly see have no chance of working. They
will persist on working on it long after all hope is gone.
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Wheel Spinners:
Other procrastinators are those who know the
right thing to do but have a million reasons for why it will not work
or why they cannot do it now. They are much like a car which is stuck
in a rut: the wheels keep on spinning faster and faster but they only
serve to dig a deep hole that ensures that the car will go nowhere.
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Trapped by Comfort:
The biggest procrastinators are those who are
trapped in their own comfort zone and are just plain
reluctant-unwilling-unable to do things differently or to do different
things. As the old saying goes:
"if you do what you have always done, you will
get what you have always gotten"
and you will go nowhere.
If you are crying an endless ocean of tears for
"no apparent reason", then you are suffering from "Reasonless Crying".
If you are sad and cry for no present cause,
then it is likely that you are experiencing "Reasonless Crying":
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Reasonless Crying Defined:
Tears that make no sense in the context of
your life now may well be caused by your past lives. When your life
is good but the tears come anyway - especially when you are alone and
cannot stop them - these are reasonless. Yet, on the inside, there
is always a reason for crying... and past lives can be that reason.
If so, these tears will only stop when the past is healed.
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Loss of a Loved One:
I know about this all too well. This is how
I got into past life work. From a very young age, I would cry "for
no apparent reason" meaning my tears had nothing to do with this life
now. Later when I looked into my past lives... and saw that I was
crying for a very good reason... In a recent past life, I was suddenly
torn from someone I loved passionately with all my heart.
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Loss of a Loved Life:
Those, who were living their life exactly the
way they wanted to and die suddenly, have no time to mourn their death.
When deep inside they believe their new life is
unsatisfactory-lesser-worse compared to their old one, reasonless
tears result.
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Loss of a Lost Cause:
Those, who cannot reconnect with a cause or
a way of life that no longer exists, can feel a deep sense of loss.
The sorrow deep inside that flows from being unable to "pick up the
fallen banner" from the past cause create deep and reasonless tears.
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The Reasonless Crying Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life habit (reasonless crying). Do you have any of these?
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Lack of Present Life Cause:
If there is not a physical cause (pain, injury,
illness, etc), a mental cause (bad news, stress, change, etc), or an
emotional cause (depression, anxiety, anger, etc) behind your tears
that can be traced back to what has happened to you in this life now...
your tears may come from a past life.
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Chronic Pattern:
If there seems to be a chronic pattern to your
tears - if they happen when you are alone, hear certain music, visit a
particular place, experience a specific event/situation, and so on -
then an unhealed past life may be the cause. Even "reasonless tears"
are triggered by something you are just not aware of (usually past
lives).
If you have fears for "no apparent reason" which seem irrational,
then you are suffering from "Reasonless Fears".
If you feel unduly fearful of people/situations,
then it is likely that you are experiencing "Reasonless Fears":
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Reasonless Fears Defined:
Fears that make no sense in the context
of your life now may well be caused by your past lives. When your
life is good but the fears come anyway - especially when you are alone
and cannot stop them - these are reasonless. Yet, on the inside,
there is always a reason for fears... and past lives can be that
reason. If so, these fears will only stop when the past is healed.
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Fearful People:
Most people have had the experience of
meeting someone and having instant feelings of like, dislike, love, or
hate. This is their unconscious mind telling them two important
things.
One,
this is a person they have encountered before
in past lives.
Two,
their instant feelings communicate the net
result of their interaction with that person after all their past
life encounters. Literally, in this life, we pick up where we left
off in the past with our long time karmic partners.
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Fearful Substances:
Many people come pre-loaded with fears of
different kinds of food, drink, medicines, and other ingestible-
inhalable-injectibile substances. These fears can be so strong that
the body will be allergic to or will reject these substances and their
mind will avoid it like them plague (even if they are beneficial).
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Fearful Situations:
Many people come pre-loaded with fears of
stressful events like encounters with illness, weather, heights, animals,
and so on. These fears can usually be traced back to specific events
in past lives where pain, suffering, and death were the result.
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The Reasonless Fears Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life habit (reasonless fears). Do you have any of these?
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Lack of Present Life Cause:
If there is not a physical cause (pain, injury,
illness, etc), a mental cause (bad news, stress, change, etc), or an
emotional cause (depression, anxiety, anger, etc) behind your fears
that can be traced back to what has happened to you in this life
now... your fears may come from a past life.
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Chronic Pattern:
If there seems to be a chronic pattern to your
fears - if you just cannot trust a particular person regardless of their
actions now - then an unhealed past life may be the cause. The
"reasonless fears" that make no sense on the outside are triggered by
something on the inside that you are just not aware of.
If you cannot live without the "thing" you are
addicted to, then "it" is in control of you and you are NOT:
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Addictive Personality Defined:
From the standpoint of karma, everyone at
any point in their cycle reincarnation will experience addiction.
So, in that sense, we are ALL possessed of an addictive personality.
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So Many Traps:
One of the dangers of incarnating on Earth is
that we can easily become addicted to many things. For example, the
real drug addiction problem (by headcount) in the US is not illegal,
hard core, street drugs, it is legal, prescription medications sold
online.
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Anything an Addiction:
Whatever an individual puts their attention
on that interferes with their well being and the normal functioning of
their life... is an addiction. Addiction creates a life out of balance...
and the source of those imbalances are usually unhealed past lives.
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The Addictive Personality Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life habit (addictions). Do you have any of these?
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Physical Vulnerabilities:
Physical addictions are all too easy to acquire.
Many who become addicted to prescription drugs have no intention of
doing so. They become addicted after a serious illness or injury that
required them to go on pain killers. As long as the person continues
in serious pain, they will not become addicted to their meds. Once the
pain lessens, if the individual still continues on the pain meds, they
will become addicted to them just like those who abuse drugs.
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Mental Vulnerabilities:
Mental vulnerabilities are what most quickly
create addictions. Those who others label as "addictive personalities"
are likely to have one or more of the following mental vulnerabilities.
They do not feel loved because they were abused by their birth family,
their marital family, or both. They do not value themselves because
others have torn away their sense of self love, self esteem, and self
worth. They do not feel good because their brains are clouded by
depression, anxiety, fear, grief, sadness, and other disempowering
emotions. Too often addiction becomes the answer to filling the holes
created by all these mental deficiencies.
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Emotional Vulnerabilities:
Emotional vulnerabilities are what most easily
create the deepest and most lasting addictions. When loved ones die
and an individual is grieving their loss, they are vulnerable to
becoming addicted to whatever can manage their pain. When relationships
end painfully, when jobs end abruptly, when financial tragedies strike,
those experiencing such tragedy are vulnerable to whatever can manage
their grief. When family or romantic relationships are a constant
source of seemingly unending pain, addictions to whatever can ease the
heartache are a tempting answer. When emotions seem unmanageable,
addictions are likely.
If you are being
tortured by a spouse,
then you likely suffer from being a "Battered
Spouse".
If you feel as if you "deserve" the bad
treatment routinely inflicted by a spouse, then you are "battered":
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Battered Spouse Defined:
"Battered Spouse Torture" is any act by which
severe pain or suffering, whether physical, mental, emotional, or
spiritual is intentionally inflicted by one person on another in a
love relationship.
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Sustainable Torture:
The worst torture happens when both the
torturer and the tortured are in complete agreement with the torture
process. These are "family-friend" situations where the tortured is in
a "love relationship with their torturer" (like a husband inflicting
torture on his wife or a parent torturing a child) and it continues
indefinitely.
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Role Reversal:
Those who were perpetrators of battery in
past lives becomes its victims in the present. When it comes to
spousal battery, those who sow violence will be precisely matched
with persons/situations where they will reap it - no exceptions.
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Deserving Conviction:
The unique characteristic of spousal battery is
that both victim and perpetrator believe that it is deserved. In other
words, the perpetrator is "justified" in beating the victim who "deserves"
the abuse... which is an unconscious recognition of karma.
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The Battered Spouse Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life problem (spousal battery). Do you have any of these?
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Prisoner of Love:
The love of the tortured for the torturer is
the means by which the tortured are robbed of all power and freedom to
end the torture. While the tortured believes they "love" the torturer,
the torture will continue and usually will escalate until the tortured
person is either killed or gets help to end their pain. This kind of
torture is better known as "Battered Spouse Syndrome" and it most often
happens to women (but it can also happen to men).
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Prisoner of Fear:
The battered person is a prisoner of fear
not love: they believe their abuser is both omni-present and omniscient.
They fear that their abuser is always watching them (omni-present) even
when they know their abuser will be away for an extended period. They
fear that their abuser will always know (omniscient) about their least
sign of "bad" behavior and will punish them severely for every infraction…
because of their prolonged past abuse.
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Fellow Prisoners:
The battered person must also to worry about
their fellow prisoners: the children. Those who do not side with the
abuser and participate in the battered person's torture become subject
to it themselves. The battered person has good reason to fear for their
life and/or their children's lives. Most likely, everyone in the family
has been seriously physically, mentally, and emotionally harmed by the
abuser multiple times in the past and have become prisoners of fear.
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Prison Sentence:
The unrelenting abuse twists the battered person
into believing that not only was the abuse totally their fault but they
actually deserved it. After awhile, they cannot place the responsibility
for all the violence - where it belongs - on their abuser.
If your money is always flowing out the door as
soon as it comes in, then you likely suffer from "Efficient Emptying".
If you feel as if you always "a day late and a
dollar short", then you do suffer from "Efficient Emptying":
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Efficient Emptying Defined:
The "Efficient Emptying Syndrome" - money
out as soon as it comes in - serves to keep its "victims" constantly
living on the edge of financial disaster. In essence, it is an
indicator of extreme poverty consciousness.
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Lack of Self Love:
The root cause of poverty consciousness is
always lack of love. Often people have carried over these "energy
pathways" from past lives into the present to force them to resolve
the underlying issues by getting "complete" with the poverty experience.
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Bottom Line:
If you are a victim of the "Efficient Emptying
Syndrome", you are in pain that money cannot buy your way out of.
Deal with the emotions (Long Test below) underlying the money problems
and your financial situation is bound to improve guaranteed!
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The Efficient Emptying Test:
Here is how to know if you are being influenced
by this past life problem (poverty mind). Do you have any of these?
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Efficient Emptying - Quick Test:
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Never able to get ahead money-wise, no matter how hard you try.
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Unexpected windfalls getting wiped out by unexpected expenses.
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Reeling from constant financial problems emptying your savings.
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Constantly getting "ripped off" or "scammed" by the unscrupulous.
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Always broke: having to "mooch" off of relatives, friends, etc.
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Always broke: an open wallet to "helpless" relatives, friends, etc.
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Efficient Emptying - Long Test:
When you are uncomfortable financially, you are
actually acting out unresolved emotions of being inadequate, undeserving,
deprived, ashamed, abandoned, and unworthy. Here is how:
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Inadequate - Never Ahead:
At any level of income, if you never feel that
you are good enough, you will never get ahead. Your feelings of being
inadequate get reflected in the lack of outward supply. When you truly
start feeling good enough on the inside, the outward signs of abundance
will start flowing to you more easily.
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Undeserving - Windfalls Wipe Out:
Everyone has heard the stories of the lottery
winners blowing fortunes that could have lasted for a lifetime... in a
matter of months or years. This happens because on the inside they
do not feel deserving of their good fortune and so they unconsciously
act to "get rid of it". Until you truly feel deserving of what you
get, you will wipe out windfalls every time.
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Deprived - Reeling Feeling:
If you find yourself getting back into financial
trouble immediately after having gotten out of it, you have the "reeling
feeling". Those who end up creating multiple dramas around money are
those do not have enough love, attention and emotional support in their
lives. Those who are deprived of this nurturing often spend money on
themselves to feel the love they are not getting from others. As long
as you feel deprived and act it out through money, you will reel from
one financial crisis to another.
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Ashamed - "Scammed":
There is absolutely an element of financial
karma involved in "scams" and "rip offs" as in "I stole from you last
life, now you are stealing from me!" And yet, of all karma, that of
the financial kind is the most easily forgiven. Most often, those
who are scammed are being forced to confront their own feelings of
shame. Shame - feeling stupid, used, cheated - is a desperate cry
for love and help... in that, you need to love and help yourself.
Until you confront what you are ashamed of, you will be "ripped off".
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Abandoned - "Moocher":
Moochers keep connected to family and friends
by owing them money. People are not likely to forget you if you owe
them money. In fact, they are likely to chase you down to get the
money back... so this way you stay connected to them without having
to "do the work" of being in a relationship. Until you can learn
love yourself and others more, a moocher you will remain.
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Unworthy - "Open Wallet":
Open Wallets are usually the ones who supply
the moochers. They open their wallets both to stay connected to others
through a financial relationship and to "get rid of" money which they
are uncomfortable with anyway. If you cannot keep some money for
yourself, deep down it is because you do not feel worthy enough to
receive it. As in "why do I have so much?" The answer is you are a
child of God and deserve to have as much as you want. Everyone
deserves this and will get it if only they feel worthy.
When people enter their present life, they have
forgotten that they have chosen the difficulties they are facing now
to resolve unfinished business from past lives.
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