First of all, the reason I was compelled to write to you was because of
the wisdom that saturated your site. Never before have I come across a
'spiritual' website that is so profound, so comprehensive and so practical too!
You demonstrated your calibre by writing with such loving acceptance.
Believe me, there are many so-called 'spiritual teachers' out there who
wear a loving facade, speak in caressing tones, and use impressive 'new
age' terminology, yet when it comes to the nitty-gritty, they are just
narrow-minded egotists. Many terminated their 'friendship' with me
when I disclosed/told them I was a transsexual.
We know that no one is in no position to judge the journey of another
soul. We know that many gender benders are incarnating at this time to
help the world to be more open hearted and accepting, to help people
look beyond physical exteriors to see the One Spirit that dwells in
all... I know Am essentially neither man or woman; I Am Spirit. This
physical 'costume' is only temporary; a fleeting experience in My
infinite journey through eternity (for more on a Soul's journey,
That is why I particularly enjoyed your exercises on self-love. I think
that many teachers/therapists who try to promote self-esteem, often focus
too heavily on teaching us to love our physical and psychological qualities.
The fact is, our true nature is unlimited Spirit. True Self is Divine, and
THAT is what gives us our worth. The affirmation you teach, ' I love you
as Soul' is just perfect!!! It really hits the nail on the head. (To
access this exercise on Soul Love,
I also love the exercise on healing the inner child
(for this exercise, click here!)
and connecting to our sacred space
(for this exercise, click here!)
Yes, in the past, I saw my 'burden' as a terrible torture device that
kept me crippled and weighed down and hideously 'unlovable'. It took me
quite a while to look at my gender dysphoria/transsexuality as a gift
that brought me many powerful lessons. It accelerated my spiritual growth
immensely (that is why we are all here! - EM)
By searching inwards to discover what I was, I ended up
transcending gender roles and discovering True Self, which is Pure
Consciousness, pure Spirit. I'm not completely healed. I still have alot
more self love to cultivate, but I'm getting there. Your writings on
connecting with the Higher Self are so important. I love the exercises you provide
(for these exercises, click here).
I also appreciate your writings on past life healing (for an overview of
Past Life Healing, click here).
I think many people make the mistake of dwelling on past life information just
for the sake of curiosity. Looking at past lives should be done with a
purpose, and that purpose should always be for learning and healing, not
for idle curiosity or for hearing about glamorous identities we may have
been just to inflate our current egos. I am glad your website handled
this subject with wisdom.
One of my most recent lessons has been the importance of remaining grounded.
One the greatest things I learned was that we must love ourselves for
WHO we are, which is an individualized ray of God's consciousness, or the
'God within'. Spirit identification is vital for true self acceptance,
however, it is important that we do not focus so heavily on our spiritual
identities that we end up becoming far removed from our 3D existence and
In your quest for Self Realisation, you cannot meditate so
much that you end up stepping out of this world and thus turn away from
life's lessons. We have come here with a purpose, and we need to fulfill
our contract. We can only do that by living. We must remain grounded in
the reality of our lesson and of our dimension.
There is nothing sacred about escape. It is easier to leave our bodies
than to stay in them! This was quite an important lesson for me in my
journey to self acceptance. I loved when you said in your website that
the fact that we are incarnate
'is in itself an act of bravery'.
This is so true!!!!!! It takes a lot
of courage to live in this dense plane, especially when you have planned
a very challenging life for yourself AND especially when you happen to be
I am increasingly aware of the synchronicity in
my life, and I must say that your website came at the perfect time.
(Actually, I think it caught me with a psychic lasso and hauled me in!!!).
I am always lead to information and books and written material that seems
to reach out like hands to pull me further along my path.
Your website was
definitely one of those helping hands this time!! God bless you for your
wonderful work. Thank You! Floods of Love and Light!