Rules #31b:
"Untangling the Web": Qualities of Past Life First Contact
"As Fragile as Gossamer"
Our first contact with past life awareness is
usually in the
dream state.
Next, we will get "glimpses"
while we are awake... that will later lead us to
basic past life clues
to our existence.
Instant Flashback:
is when the past life
cause of a present issue "pops" into your mind.
Offhand Remark:
is when a past life pattern
is revealed by an otherwise inexplicable remark.
Weird Thought:
is when a past life pattern
is revealed by an otherwise inexplicable thought.
Common Object:
is when past life recall
is triggered by an otherwise common object.
'Accidental' Return:
is when there is an
accidental return to the site of a past life death.
Scene of the Crime:
is when there is an
intentional return to the site of a past life death.
"Flashbacks give us an awareness of the fluid
nature of time and help us to explore living fully in the present
moment." (Mark Cole)
When you really need to know about your past
lives, you will get an instant flashback.
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Physical Reactions:
Instant flashbacks are usually accompanied by
physical sensations like goose-bumps, chills, and tingles. These are
designed to convince the one experiencing the past life flashback of
the absolute truth of what they are seeing in their mind's eye and what
they are feeling inside their heart. This instant flashback is often
experienced like a mini-movie where the individual momentarily relives
the past life (all of its key events) which is the root cause of their
present karma.
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Mental Reactions:
Instant flashbacks are usually accompanied by
unexpected thoughts. The past life cause for the present life situation
will just "pop into" the individual's mind (as in the case above). This
new knowledge will help the person to better understand their present
issue and to react more appropriately now (ie. by not repeating past life
mistakes). They will realize how their past actions have contributed to
their present dilemma. They will become free to do things differently
than in the past and to do different things now to create a better
future.
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Emotional Reactions:
Instant flashbacks are usually accompanied by
strong emotions. If their flashback was prompted by seeing a particular
individual, then the person will re-experience how they felt about them.
If there was love for that individual, there will be warm feelings while
if there was hate, there will be fear. If the flashback was prompted by
visiting a certain place or recreating a certain event, then they will
re-experience their feelings at the moment of death.
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Spiritual Reactions:
While the instant flashback is in progress,
the individual will be totally connected to their divine nature as Soul.
They will know - for an instant - why they have chosen their life
experiences… and then will quickly forget it. They will be left with
an indelible memory that will persist both in mind and heart.
"Out of the mouth of babes." (when children speak unexpected words of
wisdom)
Do you pay attention to your offhand remarks?
You should as they are clues to your past lives, especially when they
come out spontaneously, unexpectedly, and violently.
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Spontaneous Example:
"I am NOT your whore!"
I blurted this out while arguing with my then
husband. The content and force of this remark surprised even me.
"Where did that come from?" he asked. I did not have the answer then.
Yet this "Offhand Remark" stayed in my mind... until I could find
where it came from.
Past Life Source:
My "Offhand Remark" came from a past life in
what is now Canada. I was an Indian female who never could be as
docile or submissive as the tribe wanted. He was a Frenchman who
bought me from my tribe. They were all too happy to get rid of a
troublemaker like me. In that life, I WAS his whore. We had an
abusive, violent relationship which ended with me killing him.
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Out of Context Remark:
"Offhand Remarks" are totally out of context.
They are out of context given the conversation, the relationship
situation, and the circumstances of the present life. They are as much
of a surprise to the person who says it as it is to the person who
hears it... making no sense at all to either one of them (unless they
knew the past life history). Yet, at the same time, the remark will
resonate with both people... as containing a nugget of hidden truth.
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Past Life Context:
The "Offhand Remark" makes no sense in the
present life... but makes perfect sense if the past life history was
known. The "Offhand Remark" gets triggered when the present life
situation "looks and feels" like an unhealed past life between the
individuals involved. In my case, in that past life, my husband had
constantly called me "whore" in French, referred to me as a "whore"
to all others we met, and treated me with no respect like a "whore".
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Past Life Healing:
The "Offhand Remark" is an unconscious cry for
healing unloving patterns created in past lives. The truth was that
our endless arguments while married this time around were word for
word replays of past life arguments (especially from that Canadian
incarnation). At least, we had solved our problems by divorce rather
than murder. Had we known about what that "Offhand Remark" was trying
to tell us about our past lives... our present would have been better.
"We are what we think. All that we are arises
with our own thoughts. It is with our thoughts that we make our world."
(Gautama Buddha)
When we experience strange, unusual, or weird
thoughts, it just may be past lives crying out for healing.
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Case in Point:
"I had this thought that came out of nowhere:
if I was successful at [a career] then that meant I would lose
[body part] and would experience [harm-death]."
The answer is:
"It is a weird [past life] thought."
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Its All Inside:
The easiest way to glimpse your past lives is
to pay close attention to your own thoughts and words.
Many times when you ask a question about your present life - and the
answer lies in past lives - it will "bubble up" from deep inside you.
If you catch yourself thinking or speaking of what seems to come from
outside yourself or your own experience, this "weird" thought or speech
most often comes directly from unhealed past lives.
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Common Example:
As an individual grows up, they find they have
a natural talent. They decide to cultivate that talent and, at first,
all goes well. Then, at some point, they come up against internal
resistance to pursuing it to a professional level.
This internal conflict comes to a boiling point: the person has to have
an answer… and they get one. The thought goes like this: "Well if I go
farther, I will [re-experience a traumatic past life injury and/or
death]."
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Getting Unstuck:
If the person is "stuck" because they cannot
get an answer and if the only answer lies in past lives, their mind
will give them one.
Often the individual will know it is a past life answer because of its
content. For example, if the answer about potentially dying includes
forms of execution no longer practiced (like being beheaded or burned
at the stake), then the origin of the problem lies in past lives.
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Moving Forward:
Once the person receives this information, they
must decide what to do about it. Many choose to dismiss it and chalk
it up to daydreaming. Others will pay attention to it but will not
know what to do about it, will be too afraid to find out, and so will
end up pushing it to the back of their mind.
Yet those who choose to take action and pursue past life healing in
response to such weird thoughts and words have the best chance to
become unstuck. They are the ones who will move forward in their
lives now and continue to develop their past life gifts.
"Memory is a way of holding onto the things you
love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose."
("The Wonder Years")
When you really need to know about your past
lives, it can be revealed to you through a common object.
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Buried Treasures:
When we come into a new life, we enter into
an agreement to forget about the old ones. Although they are "forgotten",
our past lives lie just near enough to the surface of our conscious
awareness for us to access them. Often all we need to do is look at the
surface and see the outlines of the buried treasures that are strewn
like little diamonds across the sands of our awareness. Common objects
can help you find those buried past life treasures.
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Finding Treasure:
The common object that will unlock the door
to your past life awareness is one that is a meaningful symbol of your
past life experience. It is one that was chosen before you were born
and it remains deeply buried in your subconscious mind until it is time
for it to emerge. It is one that is unavoidable because it is so
common that you are sure to encounter it. It is one that you will
instantly recognize as being significant to you in some meaningful way.
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Treasure Troves:
The common object can be anything. Most often,
these are personal items like clothes, shoes, jewelry, books, and tools
(like ropes, knives, utensils, etc). Usually when the individual finds
the particular object that is their key to past lives… this recognition
is intense, overwhelming, and unmistakable.
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Finding Meaning:
Finding a meaningful object is best explained
by an example. The story of a tragic lost love was anchored to a gold
chain bracelet. It "looked and felt" like a rope bracelet I had worn in
a past life. This past life was so painful and buried so deep that my
subconscious mind would have stopped me from remembering had I tried to
access it directly. Yet it was something I needed to know because knowing
the past life story explained and help me overcome the deep seated fear
that I had of becoming seriously involved in intimate relationships.
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Finding Understanding:
Once the common object has unleashed your past
life awareness, the healing begins. Your understanding of its past
life significance to your life today will guide you to take the actions
needed to heal it. Once you do, the past life block to present life
actions will be removed, helping you to create the future you desire.
For an exercise to help you with this discovery,
click here.
"The best lessons are learned from the past. The
error of the past is the wisdom of the future." (Dale Turner)
What it is like to return to the "scene of the
crime" (a very traumatic death in an past life which has yet to be
healed) is best illustrated by a true story... mine.
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Vacation Disguise:
I had gone on a vacation to Williamsburg,
Virginia with a friend of mine. It was a pleasant trip which I undertook
with a much enthusiasm. I had always been fascinated by the history of
the settling of Virginia by English colonists. The last stop on our
trip was Carter's Grove Plantation.
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The Karmic Route:
My friend, who loves going the scenic route,
insisted that we travel there by the country road (instead of by the
highway). That road wound for a few miles through beautiful wooded
scenery. The closer we drew closer to Carter's Grove, the larger knot
in my stomach got.
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First Resistance:
Reasons for not stopping there raced through my
mind but none of them were good. Hating to spoil my friend's fun, I
swallowed my dread and in we went. Carter's Grove was a lovely place
and my fears melted away. My friend was fascinated by it and, with
her usual charm, she instantly bonded with the tour guide. This was
my cue to leave so she could grill the guide about the house.
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The Crime Scene:
Relaxed, I walked down to the river. The guide
told me that a long, abandoned English colony - Martin's Hundred - had
been discovered there. Since I loved ruins, I could not wait to see it.
Excitedly, I raced to the top of the hill overlooking the outline of the
fort. It only took a moment for the scene to change.
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Past Life Vision:
Instead of mid afternoon, it was early morning
with the sun just rising. Instead of a bare, modern reconstruction of
the fort, I saw the complete settlement. The shore line instantly moved
farther out. The buildings instead of being outlines were whole but
were on fire. Smoke and screams filled the chilly air.
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Past Life Recall:
Then, suddenly, I stopped being the observer…
and started reliving the events leading up to my past life death there.
I instantly saw that the fort had been taken by surprise. I knew the
only thing I could do was get help from one of the other settlements.
Or, at least, warn them that the Indians had finally attacked. Studying
the massacre in this life, I learned that settlements up and down the
river had been stricken at the same time. For the rest of the story,
click here.
Returning to the "scene of the crime" - where
you died in past lives - is a traumatic event.
Partly it is traumatic because it is a strange
sensation to feel death while still alive. Partly it is traumatic
because you must unexpectedly relive a very difficult moment without
advance warning.
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Crime Scene:
For me, it was just outside of Chiswick House
in London. In a past life, I was killed there when I was coming to
the aid of a neighbor who was being robbed. I grabbed her purse from
the thief who then stabbed me in the stomach. The knife dug deep and
I quickly bled to death. When I returned in this life to visit Chiswick
(pictured), the exact spot where I was killed is now a bus stop… where
I had to wait 20 minutes for it to arrive. As the time went on, I
became increasingly uncomfortable... as I flashed back to that past
life murder.
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Physical Manifestations:
When someone returns to the scene of a past
life death, there can be a visceral physical reaction. The individual
can shake, sweat, cough, gag, vomit, and experience pain. They can
feel extreme cold (in cases where death resulted from bleeding out) or
extreme heat (in cases where death was caused by fever). Their body
will mimic (sometimes in precise detail) the last moments before the
past life death with the same sensations and movements.
In the example above, I was shivering with cold (my body
was remembering bleeding out) even though it was a hot summer's day.
I could feel a quick sharp pain where I was stabbed. I could not
stop shaking until I was some distance away from the scene of the
crime.
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Mental Manifestations:
When someone returns to the scene of a past
life death, their mind can be overwhelmed by the thoughts of their past
life self. They will remember exactly what crossed their mind as they
died.
In the example above, I kept thinking how hard my neighbor/friend's
life would be without the stolen money and my ongoing help. Yet I
also remembered that I was quite relieved to die. I had lost an arm
in the war and never lost the infection arising from the amputation.
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Emotional Manifestations:
When someone returns to the scene of a past life
death, their emotions take over. Especially when the death was very
sudden and traumatic, the emotional feedback can be absolutely
overwhelming.
In the example above, I was panic stricken. Given that it was a clear
summer's day and that the other people at the bus stop were perfectly
lovely, it made no sense to anyone. Although I tried my best to hide
my feelings, I was actually making everyone else nervous. I could not
return to my normally calm state of being until the bus took me away.
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Look & Feel:
You do not have to return to the scene of a
past life death to re-experience it. Whenever there is a situation
that "looks and feels" like the scene of the crime... it will trigger
the same reactions... so that past life healing can begin.