This process can best be explained by a simple example. A client came to me for a session with a list of seven questions on seemingly unrelated topics. They were:

Why did their family rely on them too much?
Why did there friends always end up using them and then dumping them?
Why did everyone come to them at work to solve their problems?
Why was they constantly in debt?
Why was they always constantly functioning of the brink of exhaustion?
Why was they never able to get what they wanted done?
Why was they always feeling so frustrated?

The golden thread identified by their Higher Self that tied all these issues together was the fact that this client was willingly putting themself in the role of a martyr. This came as quite a surprise to this individual.

Their Higher Self explained that they were constantly tired because they were always doing everything for everyone except themself. They was so busy giving their time, energy, and money to family, friends, and coworkers that they were busy, exhausted, and broke. Because they gave too much to others, there was little left over for themself. So course, nothing they wanted ever got done. In turn, this left them feeling used, frustrated, and... in search of answers.

Their Higher Self showed them how and why they were martyring themself to everyone else's expectations. Their Higher Self advised them as to how they could achieve a harmonious balance between their needs and others desires. Once they accepted responsibility for having created this situation, they were able to make the necessary adjustments in their life. Though this initially created some difficulties with those they had been "helping", ultimately it lead to healthier relationships for them with family, friends, and coworkers.

In the session, this client was surprised that questions they had thought were unrelated were in fact intimately related. They had expected answers to each individual question along with techniques as to how to address each issue.

Even though they received one answer to seven questions, they were pleased with the advice of their Higher Self. They were even more delighted with the improvement that implementing this advice made in their life.