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Instant Attraction:
When you first meet someone you have known
well from past lives, you know instantly that they are someone who is
special to you. When you are around them, you experience a sense of
familiarity and you are automatically comfortable with them. They
feel like home or family to you.
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Flash of Recognition:
Your attraction to your Soulmate is continuously
reinforced by their mannerisms (how they smile, laugh, or speak), by
their habits (what they do and have always done), and by their presence
(how they feel to be around). These little flashes of recognition send
constant hooks of love into your mind and heart.
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Only Love Endures:
Your attraction (always mutual) happens because
you experienced a deep love for past life Soulmate of yours. The deep
love comes from countless lifetimes as spouses, lovers, family, friends,
and enemies. When you have loved another for - literally - thousands
of years that love is never lost.
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Pull of Love:
You feel the pull of past life love whenever
you are near your Soulmate. This pull inspires you to want to touch
your Soulmate (hold hands, kiss, caress, and hug) often. When you are
apart, you find yourself always thinking about your Soulmate (wondering
how they are doing and wishing them well).
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Always on Your Mind:
You feel the pull of past life love, especially
in the beginning, because your Soulmate is always on your mind. They
are the first thing you think of in the morning and the last thing at
night. When you are parted from them, all the fond memories of time
you spent together fill your mind.
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Buried Deep in Your Heart:
The pull of past life love feels like your
Soulmate is buried deep in your heart. It is like you carry them
around with you all the time. When you are parted from them, you
feel a warm glow. At times, you even feel what they are feeling.
This is how your Soulmate comes to feel like they are a part of you.
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Attention High & Low:
You feel unusually happy when you are near to
your Soulmate, when they are kind to you, and when they return your
love. Similarly, it also causes you to feel unusually sad when you are
separated from your Soulmate, when they are unkind to you (even if
unintentional), and when they fail to return your love.
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True Home:
Your attraction to your Soulmate is so strong
because they help you to feel cherished, loved, and truly at home. Your
Soulmate is your "soft place to fall": the one individual who loves you
unconditionally through your tragedies and triumphs. The one person
who "gets you" and gives you the freedom to grow.
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Protective Instincts:
Your attraction to your Soulmate manifests
most powerfully as protective instincts. The physical well being and
welfare of your Soulmate is as important to you as your own… and there
is little that you would not do for one another… no matter what the
cost in time, energy, effort, or money.
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Twin Flame:
Your "second self" and "best earthly companion"
is your twin flame. Although you can know and grow more love with many
other loving Soulmates, your twin flame helps you to grow in your ability
to love more rapidly than any other. Each wants to be a better person
and to be more worthy of their Soulmate love.
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Deeper Still:
At times you will wonder why you are willing to
put up with so much from your past life Soulmate. Yet, because the past
life love is so strong, whatever they do or say (or fail to do or say)
more love bubbles up and refills your heart. Whatever happens, you find
that your love for your Soulmate is always deeper still.
"Ours is a forever love… there is nothing but
love… it is all love." ("Robert Shatford", "The Perfect Storm")
A "Forever Love" is formed by 1,000s of years
of loving at the deepest levels in countless past lives.
The question:
"Since I was a child, I have felt as if I was
waiting to be reunited with a past life lover… a lover I promised to
wait forever for. Could that be true? If so, could I break free of
this promise if that is what I want now?"
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"You and No Other":
As we go through our cycles of reincarnation,
we find the one and only, the other half of ourselves, our "Twin Flame",
our Bashert(a).
For this person, we will do anything… including making a promise to
"wait" to be reunited with our "Forever Love" no matter how long it
takes. We make such agreements in our Life Contract (before we are
born) because our love for our "Twin Flame" is so "deep and abiding
that we cannot possibly even envision connecting with someone else.
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Blocking Other Loves:
If we have agreed to "wait" for our "Forever Love",
this comes at a price. All our other romantic relationships are doomed to
failure.
When we get too close to anyone other than our "Forever Love", something
always happens to put an end to them. Perhaps they cannot commit to us
or vice versa. Perhaps the longing for our "Forever Love" keep us from
allowing others to even get close. Perhaps we feel like other relationships
are "false" and we hunger for the only one that can feel real: the one
with our "Forever Love".
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Loneliness of Being Alone:
The problem with waiting for our "Forever Love"
in any given lifetime is that we may be waiting forever.
The catch is that this reunion can only take place when each person has
solved a long standing karmic problem. If one or both fail to do so,
they will not connect. Each will feel the pain of not having a fulfilling
romantic relationship in this life… because each is a widow(er) to the
other's memory... to their Forever Love.
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Free to Get Free:
Just because one lover promised the other to
wait… each one is free to break that promise and do what is best for them…
in this lifetime.
Breaking that promise is simplicity itself. All you need to do is make
the following declaration to the universe:
"I now declare that I now am released from the
promise I made to my 'Forever Love' to wait to be reunited with them.
I choose to co-create a romantic relationship with someone else who is
harmonious with who I have chosen to be in this life. So be it, it is
so." Now you are free to move forward in your
life now and past your Forever Love.
"My long time companion, my guide, and mine own old
familiar friend: We took counsel together and walked in the house of God as
friends." (Bible: Psalms 55:14)
When you have known someone for 1,000s of years in
past lives, things can get complicated.
The question:
"I have a relationship with someone I know I have
shared many past lives with. Sometimes we fall into behavior patterns from
past lives, and it is wrecking havoc with my life now! What should I do?"
The answer:
"I too have someone in my life now who has been
my long time companion in past lives. Our relationship is severely
skewed, twisted, and bent by our past life history and presents
challenges in our lives today."
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Everything to One Another:
When you have been everything - romantic
partners, family members, friends, and enemies - to another person,
it is very easy to slip into familiar past relationship patterns
with them.
Problems result when the individuals interact the way they used to do
in past lives and that is inappropriate in the context of their present
lives. For example, if two people were married in many lifetimes over
the course of their cycles of reincarnation, they may find it natural
to continue to care for one another as if they were still married.
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Memories of Us:
At times, past life memories intrude into the
present. A glance, a smile, a laugh, a touch, a turn of phrase are
enough to revive past life memories between former loving partners.
Thoughts and feelings from the past flood their present
awareness... and may cause one or both to act inappropriately. One
or both may seek to recreate the past relationship at the expense of
present commitments. Instead of their knowledge of the past creating
good karma... it leads them into the quicksand-like mire of bad karma.
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Focus on the Present:
When you have been everything to another
person, the good news is you both have each others best interests at
heart.
This means you would never hurt each other: so both will need to focus
on honoring their present relationships and acting accordingly. This is
easier said than done. Yet if you have truly loved one another in past
lives, this love will give you the strength to do the right thing. For,
it is always best to remember, that when you have reconnected with a long
time companion, you have won the karmic lottery.